55: Finding Myself First: Single on Purpose and the Power of Wholeness

This solo episode of You Have the Power builds on my conversation with Katherine Kimball about raising standards in dating — and takes the next step: realizing that the most important relationship I can ever commit to is the one I have with myself.After a recent breakthrough with my coach, I’ve come to see that my healing isn’t just about avoiding the wrong men. It’s about embracing being single on purpose, not from lack, but from power. I share how music, open mics, and learning to say no have become mirrors for my recovery, and how investing in myself is shifting everything — from my friendships to my sense of freedom.If you’ve ever felt the sting of loneliness, second-guessed your boundaries, or wondered if being single means something is wrong with you, this episode is for you. It’s about choosing yourself first, listening to your body’s quiet “yes,” and discovering that wholeness isn’t found in someone else — it starts inside.Book a free Relationship Clarity Call:https://calendly.com/highvaluewoman7/relationship-clarity-sessionConnect with Darla Ridilla: 🌐 Learn more about podcast mentoring and my 30-day podcast launch program: https://www.highvaluewoman.info/shareyourvoiceFree Course - You Have Something to Say: The 3 Shifts That Help You Stop Overthinking and Start Your Podcast - https://youtu.be/IcXzJDGDUtkWebsite: https://www.highvaluewoman.infoSign up for mailing list: https://www.highvaluewoman.info/connectFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61550835718631Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/highvaluewoman7/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HighValueWoman-m7wLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darla-ridilla-3179b110/Send me an email: [email protected]