Essential iep and 504 tips for parents from Vickie Brett and Amanda Selogie | Emotional Dysregulation in Children | E55

How to Know If Your Child Needs a 504 or an IEPUnderstanding whether your child needs a 504 Plan or an IEP can feel confusing—but it’s essential to make the right choice to get your child the support they need.In this episode, we break down the difference between the two plans, what each one provides, and how to determine which one best supports your child’s needs.In this episode, you’ll learn:• what a 504 Plan and IEP provide and how they differ • when to request a 504 Plan vs an IEP for your child • how to advocate for your child’s specific needs in school • why written communication is crucial for securing the right supportWhat’s really happening with 504s and IEPs?A 504 Plan and an IEP both help kids with ADHD, anxiety, dyslexia, or emotional challenges, but they serve different purposes.A 504 is for: • physical or mental impairments that limit major life activities • supports that help your child access learning (e.g., extended time, preferential seating)An IEP is for: • disabilities that require special education instruction • direct services like speech, OT, behavioral supports, or specialized academic instructionReal-life example: A child with ADHD may get extended time with a 504 Plan. But if they’re still struggling academically or emotionally, they may need an IEP with targeted interventions to help them succeed.The reframe parents needBehavior is communication.It’s not bad behavior—it’s a dysregulated brain.Knowing whether your child needs accommodations (504) or specialized services (IEP) can make a big difference in their ability to thrive.How do I know if my child needs a 504 or an IEP?Does an ADHD diagnosis automatically qualify my child for a 504? Short answer: No.A diagnosis helps—but eligibility depends on how ADHD affects your child’s functioning in school.Schools will look at: • how ADHD impacts your child’s functioning in and out of class • whether ADHD symptoms substantially limit learning • what supports are needed for progressIf your child is melting down after school, avoiding homework, or struggling to get started on tasks, these behaviors may indicate a need for deeper support beyond a 504.What you can do nextOnce you understand the difference, take action:👉 Request the appropriate plan based on your child’s needs 👉 Be specific about what supports are necessary (extra time, accommodations, specialized instruction) 👉 Advocate for nervous system regulation in children as part of the overall support planIf you want to learn more about Vickie and Amanda's Inclusive Education Project, you can check out their website through this link: https://www.inclusiveeducationproject.org/. They also have a weekly Q&A on their Instagram account (@inclusiveeducationproject) in case you have any inquiries. Listen + Take the Next StepIf this episode helped clarify the difference between a 504 Plan and an IEP, share it with another parent who might need guidance.And if you want to make sure your child gets the support they need, get your FREE Regulation Rescue Kit here: 👉 www.drroseann.com/newsletterDr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge helps parents understand emotional dysregulation in children and teaches practical nervous system regulation and co-regulation strategies through her Regulation First Parenting™ approach.Mentioned in this episode:Get The Ultimate School Accommodations GuideI am passionate about helping you and your child the help you need. That's why I've put together The Ultimate School Accommodations Guide - it covers over 30 common conditions and helps you get the support your child needs. Download it today for FREE at https://www.drroseann.com/504