56. First-Time Sex

Send us Fan MailEver notice how first-time sex feels amazing? We all know someone who swears their first time with every new partner is mind-blowing. But here’s the thing—first-time sex is almost always good. The bar is low, the oxytocin is high, and the brain is drunk on novelty. In this episode, we share a real-life story of someone who keeps getting hooked after the first night and uncover what’s really happening beneath the sheets.We review the oxytocin effect—that powerful bonding hormone that can make you feel deeply connected after sex—and explain why you shouldn’t mistake chemistry for compatibility. Then, we shift gears and talk about what it actually means to be a Next-Level Man: the kind who invests in the experience with lube, towels, toys, and thoughtfulness.