57. The Dating App Mindset

Are you using dating apps while also saying how hard it is to meet people on them? Are you trying to get back out there after healing from a breakup and feeling like it’s slim pickings? The problem might be with your mindset! We want you to have FUN dating and to manifest the relationships you desire. And we see a lot of people trapped in some mindset patterns that keep them having a LAME time and even creating some self-fulfilling prophecies. Let’s do something about it! If you are dating or planning to date soon - click play. Here’s what we have in store for you: -why you might keep going on the apps even though you think it sucks -why dating apps are great for the jaded daters out there -the most common thought patterns that keep people stuck in unfulfilling online dating lives -the top things you need to know about using apps that will help you set positive and realistic expectations Want to have fun out there? Start with this fun chat. We might lose our train of thought a couple of times as we go along, but that’s how you know we are keeping it real and keeping it casual (just like you might want to do on the apps!). Make sure to get to the end of this zanny Ex-Philes episode before you start swiping again. Remember - we’ve got your backs! Interested in Messy Path, the podcast we recommend in this episode? Check them out here or wherever you listen to podcasts. Do you think that these are some dating tips that you can apply to your dating life? Let us know! Head over to the podcast Instagram @exphilespodcast and follow Clair @clairlofthouse and Janice @Janiceformichella. And if you’d like to join our online community, find us on Facebook at Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On.  We want to know you and for you to know us! ____________________________________________________________________________ The Ex-Philes is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. We believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. We recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As podcast hosts, we are dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in our content. We welcome feedback around our efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.