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EPISODE · Aug 11, 2026 · 24 MIN

#587 - Dating Notes from the Underground

from The Gary Gunn Show Podcast · host Gary Gunn

What if the reason you think you’re meeting women isn’t the real reason? In this episode, I explore Fyodor Dostoevsky’s *Notes from Underground* and what it can teach us about the hidden motives behind our dating behaviour. Are you looking for connection, or validation? Are you approaching women because you’re sociable, or because you need to feel desirable? Are you pursuing sex, escaping loneliness or repairing your ego after rejection? Through Dostoevsky’s Underground Man, we’ll explore self-deception, approval, humiliation, power, vulnerability and the uncomfortable gap between what we say we want and what might actually be driving us. Learn more about my coaching and digital courses here: socialattraction.co.uk/gary-gunn/ Join my newsletter: socialattraction.co.uk/daily-newsletter/ Subscribe to my YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/c/GaryGunn?sub_confirmation=1 This video is for entertainment purposes only. Any action you take upon the information provided is strictly at your own risk, and we will not be responsible for any losses or damages in connection with the use of this video. The selection of techniques, opinions, programs, products, services, tools, templates, or manuals is not a guarantee of income or success. You are fully responsible for the effort you put in and the results you achieve by following the information in this video. All content, materials, and techniques delivered are proprietary and cannot be used, disclosed, or duplicated without permission. This video is for informational purposes only and does not form a professional relationship. Visit our website if you wish to hire us on a professional basis. #datingadviceformen #datingtipsformen #datingcoachformen #traumahealing #emotionalhealing #nervoussystemhealing #childhoodtrauma This video is owned by Social Attraction Limited and is protected by copyright. Unauthorised use—including reposting, stitching, duetting, reacting, or using this content for commentary or derivative work on any platform—is strictly prohibited. We reserve all rights and will take action against infringement.

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