Why Nagging Doesn't Work | Tilly Dillehay | Ep. 59

Marriage conflict, nagging and technology in the home: Tilly Dillehay on the spiritual battles inside family life. Tilly, a pastor’s wife, homeschooling mom of four, author of My Dear Hemlock, and co-host of the Home Fires podcast, brings incredible wisdom shaped through years of writing, ministry, and real-life experience. Together, Josh and Tilly unpack topics like: How to address conflict in marriage with wisdom and timing Why relational capital matters—far more than we realize Nagging, gratitude, and the subtle ways resentment grows in a home The trap of comparison in the age of social media Overcoming the addiction cycle of smartphones How husbands and wives can rebuild emotional connection even after drifting apart The supernatural influence a mother has on the emotional climate of her home Surviving the young-kids phase the hardest parenting years Practical habits that restore peace, joy, and intimacy Whether you’re married, parenting little ones, or want to grow spiritually, this episode is a gold mine of practical truth, delivered with humility, humor, and compassion. Stick around to the end, Tilly’s thoughts on gratitude and spiritual formation will bless you. Chapters: 00:00:00 — Opening Question: Handling Conflict 00:14:00 — The Social Media Comparison Trap 00:21:00 — Fame, Image, and the “Better Life” Illusion 00:28:00 — Phone Addiction & Reclaiming Presence 00:35:00 — Living in God’s Time vs. Screen Time 00:42:00 — Invitation Over Criticism in Marriage 00:49:00 — Rebuilding Emotional Connection Through Prayer 00:56:00 — Forming New Spiritual Habits 01:03:00 — Resetting the Home When Overwhelmed 01:09:00 — Closing Thoughts & Where to Find the Book --- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nolongernomads/ Website: https://www.nolongernomads.co/ -- Nathan Farris Creative Producer | Technical Director | Editor Josh Doyle Host | No Longer Nomads Thanks for listening. Have a guest suggestion? Reach out at nolongernomads.co