6. My Partner's Invitation into my Self-Pleasure Practice

Episode 6 of the Esencia podcast, hosted by Catrina Armendariz, titled "6. My Partner's Invitation into my Self-Pleasure Practice" was published on March 3, 2024 and runs 95 minutes.

March 3, 2024 ·95m · Esencia

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Summary

I've moved back to O'ahu, spending lots of time on the North Shore, learning to surf, and having more incredible cervical orgasms. In this episode, I highlight the gift being on the North Shore during surf season (Winter) has been, the incredibly intimate experiences I had with my most recent partner, and I reveal why I don't use condoms or contraception, and the harm these and lubricants can bring to our mind-body system. Episode Highlights: [2:32] I Moved Back to O’ahu [3:53] The Seven Mile Miracle (North Shore) [8:28] My First Surf Lesson [9:06] Wana (Sea Urchins) aka "Fauna" 🙃 [10:23] More Cervical Orgasms & New Partner [15:38] Self-Pleasure Demo with Partner [16:00] Porn, Shame, Self-Abandonment [19:55] Inviting my Partner to Touch Me [20:57] Spontaneous vs. Response Arousal [25:27] My Spontaneous Arousal with Partner [27:26] vs. Typical Responsive Arousal [27:59] Best Sex Post-Celibacy [30:34] Vulva, Vagina, and The Three Gates [31:22] Disclaimer to my Future Husband [32:08] Inviting Him to Pleasure Me (Communication, Exploration) [33:11] My Doctor-Patient Fantasy [33:53] His Guidance During Penetrative Sex [34:59] Jackhammering (vs. Grinding, Gyrating, etc.) [37:36] The Multiorgasmic Experience [39:23] Loss of Emotional Safety [41:20] Surf Competition / Hurley Pro Sunset Beach 2024 [44:15] Unprotected Sex [47:31] Chemicals in Condoms, Contraceptives, Lubricant, Vaginal Microbiome, pH, Osmolality [69:37] Contraception: Fertility Cycling, Withdrawal & Peeing, Hormonal Implications for Women, Surgical, Neem for Men [78:59] Sensation vs. Friction Sex [79:57] Post-Nut Clarity [84:15] Empaths, Numbing, Responsibility, Support [86:04] Sensation vs. Friction Sex Useful Links https://www.catrinax.com https://www.instagram.com/catrinaarmendariz https://www.youtube.com/@catrinax https://www.youtube.com/c/catrinaarmendariz

Episode Description

I've moved back to O'ahu, spending lots of time on the North Shore, learning to surf, and having more incredible cervical orgasms.

In this episode, I highlight the gift being on the North Shore during surf season (Winter) has been, the incredibly intimate experiences I had with my most recent partner, and I reveal why I don't use condoms or contraception, and the harm these and lubricants can bring to our mind-body system.

Episode Highlights:

[2:32] I Moved Back to O’ahu

[3:53] The Seven Mile Miracle (North Shore)

[8:28] My First Surf Lesson

[9:06] Wana (Sea Urchins) aka "Fauna" 🙃

[10:23] More Cervical Orgasms & New Partner

[15:38] Self-Pleasure Demo with Partner

[16:00] Porn, Shame, Self-Abandonment

[19:55] Inviting my Partner to Touch Me

[20:57] Spontaneous vs. Response Arousal

[25:27] My Spontaneous Arousal with Partner

[27:26] vs. Typical Responsive Arousal