6 ‘Nice Girl’ Habits You Need to Ditch to Finally Get What You Want | Lisa Bilyeu (Fan Fav)

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on: July 6, 2022. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we're all about building that big, badass life together. Today, we're diving into those sneaky nice-girl habits that we need to kick to the curb to truly become the heroes of our own stories. Trust me, this episode is all about finding your voice, setting monumental boundaries, and stopping the cycle of people-pleasing that has held so many of us back. I'm here sharing my own journey, tips, and insights so you can show up in your full power. Get ready to step up and shake off what's been weighing you down!We're dissecting the habits that'll have you saying 'Yes' to everyone except yourself, exploring how to break free from that velvet handcuff of people pleasing, and learning how to set boundaries that honor our needs first. Ladies, the journey from being the 'nice girl' to the unapologetic badass we know we are is filled with life-changing revelations that will flip your world right-side-up!So buckle up, because this ride is all about uncovering what serves you and empowers you.SHOWNOTES 00:00 Create a "Think Time" Phrase04:20 Prioritizing Self-Care Over Obligations07:34 Stop People Pleasing Now11:44 Choosing Self Over People Pleasing13:43 Navigating Change in Domestic Roles19:37 Balancing Parental Expectations and Perspectives20:37 Embracing Self-Identity Over Expectations25:56 From Helper to Business Leader29:36 "From People Pleaser to Empowered"31:26 Understanding and Setting Boundaries34:22 Setting Boundaries with Loved Ones37:36 Communicating Intentions and Impact42:52 Navigating Boundaries with Mom46:06 Stop Overusing "I'm Sorry"47:51 "Empowerment: Avoiding Unnecessary Apologies"51:20 Apology-Free Communication StrategiesCHECK OUT OUR SPONSORSAudible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Netsuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://NetSuite.com/womenNPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts.**********************************************************************Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music.**********************************************************************FOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.