6. Reviewing tips for finding "the one"

Welcome to Healthy Dialogue! Join the community! https://discord.gg/6ZzwzA3pKg Podcast every Sunday at 4PM PST Speakers: Spencer, Alon Reference to the outline here: https://discord.com/channels/849564277224112138/849585077557002250/858423884919341086 The article that has the tips listed in this podcast: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/open-gently/201902/15-questions-know-if-youve-found-the-one [00:00:00] Future plans / Random banter [00:11:40] Intro to podcast topic / Tips start [00:12:48] Does your partner make you a better person, and do you do the same for them? [00:21:54] Are you and your partner both comfortable with sharing feelings, relying on each other, being close, and able to avoid worrying about the other person leaving? [00:32:35] Do you and your partner accept each other for who you are, without trying to change each other? [00:38:28] When disagreements arise, do you and your partner communicate respectfully and without contempt or negativity? [00:40:48] Do you and your partner share decision-making, power, and influence in the relationship? [00:46:46] Is your partner your best friend, and are you theirs? [00:50:10] Do you and your partner think more in terms of “we” and “us,” rather than “you” and “I”? [00:55:55] Would you and your partner trust each other with the passwords to social media and bank accounts? [00:59:39] Do you and your partner have good opinions of each other—without having an overinflated positive view? [01:03:37] Do your close friends, as well as your partner’s, think you have a great relationship that will stand the test of time? [01:09:02] Is your relationship free of red flags like cheating, jealousy and controlling behavior? [01:16:44] Do you and your partner share the same values when it comes to politics, religion, the importance of marriage, the desire to have kids (or not), and how to parent? [01:19:02] Are you and your partner willing to sacrifice your own needs, desires, and goals for each other (without being a doormat)? [01:21:00] Do you and your partner both have agreeable and emotionally stable personalities? [01:23:45] Are you and your partner sexually compatible? [01:28:31] Closing