#6: The Law of Attraction and the Purple Cow: Why Being Different will Help You Attract What You Want

Today, we're going to be looking at is a new idea, something that I thought about before and it's a pattern that I've seen in a lot of people that really stand out with either becoming very successful or people that stand out in general and its just kind of like you can't ignore that person because they really are. Even though they're different, it's like something about them. To join the Reality Transufing Academy click here  https://adoughty44.clickfunnels.com/sales-page22810780. This is going to be something that also relates to the Law of Attraction, a very powerful way and I'm going to correlate it with understanding something that are called pendulums with a process called Reality Transurfing. We're going to see how to transcend a lot of social conditioning as well. In general, just to give this a little bit of a of a backstory in a way or how I came across this, the term purple cow as a term from Seth Godin, who is an author and it's a book and it would, it talks about is when you're on or driving, say you're driving on the road and you see on the side you see trees. Are you seeing open prairie? Is that what you call it, an open prairie or something like that. A big open field and then you see some cows. If you saw just regular black and white cows, some spots on them, you wouldn't really think much of them. There is nothing really that special about them. Even if you saw some big ones, you just kind of noticed them. They're kind of in the background, but if you were driving and all the sudden you saw a purple cow, you would talk about that purple cow for the rest of your life or you had at some level you're telling people, I saw this purple cow, you would not believe it, and it would be like this. The biggest thing that had happened to you, it's a pattern interrupt, is what that's called. It would interrupt your pattern because it's like, “Whoa, what is that?” And that purple cow terminology or the phrase purple cow is something that in a way it's an it's. It's something you can't ignore. It's something you have to at a certain level, recognize because it is so out of the norm and it is so different. The way that I view the purple cow with the Law of Attraction is when we are acting out of accordance from the way people expect us to act, we start to create our own way. We start to create our own probabilities. You see, the thing is with the autopilot mind, and this is like just regular neuroscience or whatever we call it. You can read it and Dr. Joe Dispenza's books, we think on average, 60 to 70,000 thoughts a day and of those 60 to 70,000 thoughts, we think 90 percent of them are recycled from the day before, which means if we're thinking the same thoughts day in and day out, we're triggering the same emotions day in and day out and we're probably taking the same actions day in and day out. Therefore, creating and attracting the same things day in and day out because of that consistency, but the thing is when we start to become the purple cow, we start to become different. What we do is we step outside of that bubble that has been created for us and we step outside of the norm of doing everything everyone else wants us to do. If you've seen a lot of successful people or studied like what I like to do is I like to read biographies to read about the mindset of successful people and sometimes one thing they do is they just don't stay. They don't accept no for an answer. What they do is they find a way. There are many people that are told you are not going to do this, this is not probable, but what they do is they go in anyways and they make it something that happens. For a long time. I was told that I wasn't, you know, I had some friends and family and they were kind of looking at me during this whole YouTube thing and they're like, oh, maybe you should do something else. Like if, if at a certain level, if you keep making videos and you're not growing, maybe you should do something else. And what I just assumed as like, okay, well they just don't have the vision that I have and what I did is I just said to myself, no, I'm not going to accept that. We always have a choice whether we accept what someone else thinks about us or whether we even think a thought like a thought comes in our own mind. If this is something that resonates with us, it's a choice as to whether that resonates or not. But what I learned to do is just to kind of go on my own, on my own vision, and as long as that is something that's in alignment, then that is all that matters. But in general, when we start to do our own way, we start to go in our own path. We find that we start to almost create our own rules. This is something that I've kind of been doing recently is becoming more of a rebel for my own belief systems from my own rules. Like if I'm like in my mind I'm like, oh, that's not going to happen or this is something that's going to be hard. I'm like, “Wait, why does that have to be that way?” That's just prior conditioning. That's all it is. Maybe at times in the past something happened and that's why I experienced something a certain way, but the more I become challenging of these belief systems and the more I step into the way I prefer to be. This is how things really began to change. Let me give an analogy for this, or like an example from my own life as well. I always kind of bring it back to YouTube because it's what I'm most passionate about and it's not just YouTube, it's making videos is making content, it's sharing a message and when it comes to my YouTube videos, there was a time I kind of fell into the whole Law of Attraction bubble in a way. The whole Law of Attraction niche. I am about expanding awareness in general, but what I did is when I was first intending to grow. I had maybe a thousand subscribers. One time I'd make a video on Law of Attraction. People would reply like, “Hey Aaron, I love the way that you say this. Can you make another video on this?” But what about this? What I would do is I'd keep making law of attraction videos and then the channel kept growing. I kind of adopted that. Of course, I believe in the Law of Attraction. Of course, I practice in my mind in my whole life is a manifestation of that. I mean, in general, that's something that's a side note, sine tangents, side rant. Anytime somebody says, um, it's never the question of are we manifesting this or are we manifesting that? It's just life in general is a manifestation. It's just being aware of what we're already creating, but what I did is I became more aware of it, which is we're expanding awareness comes into play, which is the whole catchphrase and that is the main key is understanding the correlation between what we think to what we experience. That's what happened with me as I became more aware of that. But in general what happened was I just fell into that niche, but what I knew is that I like talking about a whole bunch of different type of stuff. I like talking about these spiritual awakening side of things. I like talking about understanding who we are as multidimensional beans, understanding that it is highly probable that we are much more than just the ego structures much more than just our physical bodies. I enjoy talking about that kind of stuff, but for the longest time I was afraid to share it out in the channel because I was trying to put myself in a little box. It was like, “Oh, I'm just the Law of Attraction guide. This is what I'm known for.” Don't step outside of the box, don't step outside of that line and here's what happened. And it's always a funny side to me to go in a certain direction. But basically what I did is I realized that this is something I'm passionate about. People feel like it's more so than the words I talk about my videos, the words I say, the information people can feel kind of what I'm saying. I'm like, okay, if I'm passionate about this subject, even though I haven't shared it yet, people are going to feel that I'm passionate and they're going to feel that. And I think that'll help regardless. I made a video on, it was a more esoteric video is on three things we agreed to before we were born, understanding who we are, a deeper consciousness level. And that video I posted and I was kind of afraid to post it, but I posted it anyways. That video is different than any other video that I've done. And it's different than a lot of videos maybe you've seen on YouTube, but what happened is that video went viral. That video now is my number one viewed video on YouTube. It's got over one point 6 million views. I just saw it today actually as I was on YouTube earlier. I was like, “Oh man, it's got one point 6 million view already.” That's as it would just add a million a couple like a month or two ago. So, to me that's like, to me it's always a sign when something like that happens, assigned to say go into this direction or trust your instinct, trust your passion. That's always kind of like the what I get from it. But in general, the reason I'm saying all this is that is what makes me different than all the other YouTubers and are not different as in better just different people. Notice if you see a Law of Attraction video, but when you have a unique perspective, like the kind of the way that I describe it, that's what kind of stops pattern and they'd see it and I become that purple cow in a way that is what it's a. That is my intention, but it's also just me being who I am. It's almost like just the more I am, the way I am, the more success I noticed. I have the option of experiencing. It's a funny thing, but that's why I want to talk about it because I think that the thing you may be missing, if you feel like you're missing anything, maybe it's just you having your unique perspective and you standing firm in it knowing that you are whole and complete, that you have a unique perspective in that it can be valued because that may