6. Who will take care of me when I'm old? With Joy Loverde

In episode 6 of the Too Young To Be Old podcast host Diane Gilmore welcomes Joy Loverde, author of Who Will Take Care of Me When I'm Old? and an extended living advocate and expert. They discuss the various aspects of aging, revealing the options available, the importance of social connections, and the role of technology in enhancing the lives of older adults. Diane sets the tone for the episode, promising shocking, comforting, and surprising insights into aging. Different ways to handle aging Diane shares her personal experience of living in a two-story home and grappling with knee issues, leading her to consider her options. Recognizing the diverse financial situations among older adults, Diane and Joy explore the array of choices available for aging individuals. One option is aging in place- where someone would receive care in their own home. There are some smartphone apps that can help too.  Remote Advice app is one where people can get health information for themselves or a loved one. New York Share app helps pair older people up with a housemate so they don’t have to live alone.  Joy says you should get to know some professionals now before you do need care at all. These are: Aging life plan professional  Hire an independent patient advocate  Before hiring anyone ask them do they have a team of people behind them so that if they do quit, your care is uninterrupted and you are familiar with their replacement.  “Money helps with a lot of problems”  Discussing the impact of wealth inequality on the aging population, Diane highlights the option of luxury sheltered housing in New York City, where individuals can stay for tens of thousands of dollars per month. Joy points out that this just shows how money can help with a lot of problems. Diane delves into the different levels of care offered, such as independent living, dependent care, memory care, and end-of-life care. The importance of a social life Joy emphasizes that aging is not solely about needing care but also about maintaining a vibrant social life. She states the significance of having a strong network of friends who can support and care for each other throughout the aging process. She shares her experience in a Chicago apartment building where residents actively look out for one another, highlighting the importance of community connections. How the internet helps Recognizing the difficulties of socializing and staying connected as one ages, Joy suggests finding community through various means. Diane and Joy discuss the increasing opportunities to connect online, leveraging technology to combat loneliness and maintain mental and emotional well-being. Joy adds that even the telephone can play a crucial role in staying connected. Lessons from COVID-19 and planning ahead Reflecting on the isolation experienced during the COVID-19 pandemic, Diane expresses her fear of aging alone. Joy offers words of hope and advice, urging listeners to draw on their experiences during the pandemic to better prepare for the future. She emphasizes the importance of creating comfort measures and support systems as one ages. Dream big and take charge Diane concludes the episode by encouraging listeners to dream big and manifest their own happiness. She shares her excitement about becoming an influencer on YouTube and Instagram. She reminds everyone of the power they possess to shape their own aging journey and to make choices that contribute to their well-being and fulfillment. Joys details:  Website: https://elderindustry.com/ Instagram: @joyloverde Connect with Diane Facebook, Instagram, Tiktok and Youtube: @thedianegilman Website: thedianegilman.com.