#61 - Why Self-Trust Is the Foundation of Real Intimacy for Midlife Women

Have you ever stayed quiet in a conversation — swallowed what you really felt — and then spent hours replaying what you wish you’d said?In this solo episode, Kena explores the connection most women never see: that the intimacy we long for — in relationships, in friendships, even within ourselves — doesn’t collapse because love runs out. It collapses the moment we stop trusting our own inner signals. Raw, honest, and deeply personal. 🦋 You’ll Discover:Why intimacy doesn’t collapse because love is missing — it collapses the moment you stop trusting yourself, and why no partner, friendship, or conversation can fill that gap.How people-pleasing, over-functioning, and staying quiet to keep the peace are all forms of self-abandonment, and the hidden price your body is already paying for them.What self-trust actually is (hint: it’s not confidence) and the quiet, embodied shift that happens when you start living in coherence with your inner signals. ✨ Coming Home Question:Where are you silencing yourself to maintain a connection and what is that silence costing your intimacy with yourself?🥁 The Leading From Pleasure 5-Week Journey, it's open for enrolment. We're starting in September 3rd. Save your spot now!  http://home.midlifebutterfly.ca/leading-from-pleasure💜 I created Coming HOME for the woman who has done everything right and still feels something is missing. It's free, it's private, and it might be the most important thing you listen to this year — sign up here!🦋 Midlife Butterfly is a podcast for high-achieving midlife women navigating emotional exhaustion, people pleasing, self-abandonment, nervous system healing, identity shifts, and midlife awakening. Hosted by Kena Siu, Identity & Embodiment Guide.Instagram: @midlifebutterflyWebsite: midlifebutterfly.caMusic: Back Home by Alex Productions and  Reborn by Alexander Nakarada