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EPISODE · Feb 25, 2026 · 25 MIN

61 | Why Trying Harder Isn’t Working (The Burnout Lie High-Functioning Women Believe)

from The Honest Work | For Honest Women Ready To Calm Their Nervous System + Stop Living In Fear · host Lisa Covert | The Honest Work Creator, Author and Podcast Host

Send me a textYou’ve done the lists. You’ve set the goals. You’ve pushed through.And you’re still exhausted.In this episode of The Honest Work, Lisa exposes the lie so many high-functioning women live by:“If I just do more, I’ll finally feel better.”We talk about:Why burnout doesn’t come out of nowhereHow your nervous system gets stuck in “try harder” modeThe hidden connection between perfectionism and controlWhy overfunctioning leads to resentmentHow chronic stress and cortisol quietly affect your bodyThe truth about trauma wiring and panic attacksAnd why doing more has never actually created peaceThis isn’t about being lazy. It’s not about abandoning goals. It’s about recognizing when effort becomes fear disguised as productivity.If you’re the woman who:Feels behind no matter how much she accomplishesCarries the emotional weight of her homeTries to control everything to avoid falling apartIs tired of being the “strong one”This episode will help you see what’s actually driving the exhaustion.Because the problem isn’t that you’re not working hard enough.It’s that you’ve been gripping instead of resetting.You don’t need more effort. You need awareness. 👉 If you’re up for trying this — just trying honesty — I created something for you. It’s called The Honest Work. It’s free, and it’s a simple guide to help you start noticing the lies that keep your nervous system stuck in fear, anxiety, and self-doubt — without fixing yourself or spiraling. You don’t have to change your whole life. You don’t have to get it right. You have to be willing to look at what’s true. You can find it in the show notes or go to LisaCovert.com/honestwork. I’m walking this way — in truth. You can come if you want. I’ll see you in the next episode. ✨ Click Here Now. ✨ 🎶 Instrumental Acoustic Guitar Music by Viacheslav Starostin (original_soundtrack), W E B S I T E - LisaCovert.com I N S T A G R A M - @lisamcovert

Send me a text You’ve done the lists. You’ve set the goals. You’ve pushed through. And you’re still exhausted. In this episode of The Honest Work, Lisa exposes the lie so many high-functioning women live by: “If I just do more, I’ll finally feel better.” We talk about: Why burnout doesn’t come out of nowhereHow your nervous system gets stuck in “try harder” modeThe hidden connection between perfectionism and controlWhy overfunctioning leads to resentmentHow chronic stress and cort...

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Send me a textYou’ve done the lists. You’ve set the goals. You’ve pushed through.And you’re still exhausted.In this episode of The Honest Work, Lisa exposes the lie so many high-functioning women live by:“If I just do more, I’ll finally feel...

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