624: Some Surprising College Rejections

Megan and Erin discuss common surprising college rejections and how to avoid them. College rejections are often based on numerical limitations rather than personal judgment, but they still hurt. While some rejection is expected with competitive admissions, there are some steps parents and students can take to minimize disappointment. Preventable Mistakes Megan and Erin discussed preventable mistakes. They highlighted the importance of completing all parts of the application and submitting it by the deadline, as well as following up on required information from others. Megan emphasized that parents should oversee their child's application process, given the significant investment in college. They also addressed how standards have changed over time, urging applicants to research current competitiveness of schools rather than relying on outdated information. The Importance of Your College List Megan and Erin discussed the challenges families face when their children are rejected from their first-choice colleges, emphasizing the importance of thorough research and planning. Megan highlighted the need for families to consider backup options early and avoid last-minute scrambles, while also suggesting alternative paths like gap years or community college if necessary. They agreed that overqualified students who show little interest in a school may be rejected, and parents often struggle to understand these decisions. College Admissions Yield vs Qualifications Megan explained to Erin that some smaller private schools prioritize yield over raw qualifications, and students who show little interest in a school may be overlooked in favor of more engaged candidates. She noted that participating in college rankings can have unintended consequences, including affecting a school's willingness to accept a student. Megan also discussed how some parents struggle to understand what "highly competitive" means, particularly when their child is not accepted by their preferred school. College Admissions Misconceptions Discussion Megan and Erin discussed the misconceptions students have about college admissions, particularly regarding highly selective schools. Megan explained that applying to multiple highly selective schools does not increase a student's chances of admission, as each school's acceptance rate remains the same regardless of the number of applications. She emphasized that students and parents need to understand that even top candidates can be rejected from these schools, and encouraged them to consider schools that are a better fit for the student's profile. College Admissions Preparation Strategies Megan and Erin discussed the importance of preparing for both good and bad news in college admissions, emphasizing the value of a diverse college list and careful application processes. They highlighted the emotional impact of not getting into a preferred school, but stressed the importance of considering alternative options and finding a better fit. Megan shared her daughter's experience of being rejected by an early decision school and ultimately being happier at her current institution, illustrating that sometimes not getting into a desired school can lead to a more suitable outcome. They encouraged listeners to research their options, ask questions, and reach out via email for further support.