#629: Candy and Critical Needs

You can make your son’s day by putting his favorite candy in his backpack— a fruit roll up, a kit-kat, or maybe a Snickers. But what if you could load his backpack with what he needs emotionally, spiritually, and socially, as well? The critical needs of boys can be symbolized by five survival tools– a compass, a map, a guide, a flashlight, and a mountain. First, boys need a “compass”– a clear mission, and a “map”– a safe male mentor. Next, your son needs a “guide”– peers to walk beside on the trail of life. The “flashlight” symbolizes every boy’s need for clear boundaries and rules. And finally, young men must have a “mountain”– a real-world challenge. And of course, giving them their favorite candy can help, too.  For ideas on meeting the five critical needs of boys, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com