64: Number one step to dating after divorce is finding what we want within ourselves first

Most of us want to one day meet someone again after divorce. But dating after divorce can feel so scary. Our trust has been shaken as has our faith in true lasting love. We read quotes and sayings about soul-mates and what true love "should" look like, sound like etc. But that's not reality, it's just good writing. So what is the key to feeling loved and seen and chosen?  The answer is simple - love yourself, see yourself and choose yourself first. Not so simple you say... Ok let's dive into the episode and see if I can help you at all. And if you would like some more help with this after the episode then I invite you to choose yourself by choosing to do the work with me. 🙋🏼‍♀️ I know, I know - shameless self-promotion 🤷🏼‍♀️. But the truth is, I can help you and would love the opportunity to work with you. https://www.theseparationclub.com/coaching Or email me (Elisabeth) at [email protected]    LINKS MENTIONED AND MORE WAYS TO WORK WITH ME: Join our vibrant and wonderful membership community and start building your village. And for a limited time you can get a free month! https://www.theseparationclub.com/offers/2qyxzDMn  Join our upcoming retreat in Costa Rica, March 2-9th, 2024 or Italy June 22-29, 2024: www.theseparationclub.com/retreats   Working with a coach is a great way to discover your purpose, your path forward while gaining clarity on your beliefs and core values. I have openings in my calendar for some new clients. https://www.theseparationclub.com/coaching   Receive our new and free Monthly Moon Journey Calendar showing you how to work with the phases of the moon and each phase’s unique energies to create the life you want. https://www.theseparationclub.com/moon   We are having some good fun and inviting in divine wisdom through a daily Tarot card reading sent to your inbox every morning for FREE! You can sign up for that here: https://www.theseparationclub.com/dailytarot Also make sure to download the Free Separation Checklist: https://theseparationclub.com/separation-checklist Join the private and free Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theseparationclub/ You can also find me on Instagram @theseparationclub where I share daily inspirations and tips as you navigate your divorce.