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EPISODE · Oct 28, 2025 · 15 MIN

64 - When You’re Worn Out: Giving Yourself Permission to Stop

from Addiction Makes Three

When you’re the one holding everything together, the house, the kids, the finances, the emotional whiplash and fallout, it’s no wonder you’re exhausted.Loving someone who struggles with alcohol or drugs can quickly take over your life. You keep going because stopping feels dangerous, like everything might collapse if you let go for a second.In this episode, Amanda shares what “the pause” really means when you’re run-down and stretched thin, and why it’s necessary for everyone’s wellbeing for you to pause. You’ll learn how to notice the crappy internal thoughts that keep you stuck, how to ask for help without guilt, and why rest isn’t a luxury, it’s maintenance.I know it’s hard here and you’re beyond tired. Take that micro moment and have a rest. It’ll help more than you could ever imagineListen next:Ep 14 - The Power of The PauseEp 55 - 7 Late Night Google Searches That Reveal Addiction Red FlagsEp 54 - What Real Support Looks Like (Without the Shame of Enabling)Ep 33 - You're not Their Rehab👉 Resources and support:1️⃣ You can also book a friendly, no-pressure chat with Amanda and explore what support might look like. Because you know you’ve been trying ‘this way’ for long enough and it's not helping anyone.👉 Book in a friendly chat - Click here to find a time and let's talk about what's possible2️⃣ join the waitlist for Pathway to Wellness, my signature program designed to help you rebuild your life alongside (or beyond) a loved one’s addiction.3️⃣ If you haven’t the Crisis Conversation Guide (What to say and what not to say when addiction takes over) ? Grab it now—it’s free and full of practical scripts to help you say what you mean (even when it’s messy):👉 Download the guide4️⃣ Connect with Amanda on Instagram @addictionmakesthree5️⃣ Questions or reflections → [email protected] can find your way through this. And you don’t have to do it alone. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When you’re the one holding everything together, the house, the kids, the finances, the emotional whiplash and fallout, it’s no wonder you’re exhausted.Loving someone who struggles with alcohol or drugs can quickly take over your life. You keep going because stopping feels dangerous, like everything might collapse if you let go for a second.In this episode, Amanda shares what “the pause” really means when you’re run-down and stretched thin, and why it’s necessary for everyone’s wellbeing for you to pause. You’ll learn how to notice the crappy internal thoughts that keep you stuck, how to ask for help without guilt, and why rest isn’t a luxury, it’s maintenance.I know it’s hard here and you’re beyond tired. Take that micro moment and have a rest. It’ll help more than you could ever imagineListen next:Ep 14 - The Power of The PauseEp 55 - 7 Late Night Google Searches That Reveal Addiction Red FlagsEp 54 - What Real Support Looks Like (Without the Shame of Enabling)Ep 33 - You're not Their Rehab👉 Resources and support:1️⃣ You can also book a friendly, no-pressure chat with Amanda and explore what support might look like. Because you know you’ve been trying ‘this way’ for long enough and it's not helping anyone.👉 Book in a friendly chat - Click here to find a time and let's talk about what's possible2️⃣ join the waitlist for Pathway to Wellness, my signature program designed to help you rebuild your life alongside (or beyond) a loved one’s addiction.3️⃣ If you haven’t the Crisis Conversation Guide (What to say and what not to say when addiction takes over) ? Grab it now—it’s free and full of practical scripts to help you say what you mean (even when it’s messy):👉 Download the guide4️⃣ Connect with Amanda on Instagram @addictionmakesthree5️⃣ Questions or reflections → [email protected] can find your way through this. And you don’t have to do it alone. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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