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EPISODE · Jul 17, 2025 · 13 MIN

65: (5 sneaky) phrases I BANNED from my vocabulary while healing my anxious ATTACHMENT and becoming SECURELY attached

from The Anxious To Secure PODCAST · host Jula - The Anxious To Secure Coach

NEW OFFER Monthly 1:1 Coaching (2x Calls a month)  https://tr.ee/PInPmy “5 Phrases I BANNED from My Vocabulary While Healing Anxious Attachment 🧠✨ (And What I Say Instead Now as a Secure Partner)”   Ever said “He makes me feel anxious” or “They NEVER show up for me”? Yep... me too 🖤   But once I started healing my anxious attachment, I realized something BIG: It wasn’t just my thoughts that were spiraling. It was the words I was using. Out loud AND in my head.   This episode is, if you’re ready to: ➤ stop sabotaging your relationship with sneaky phrases that spike anxiety ➤ feel more in control, calm, and secure... without pretending or people-pleasing ➤ rewire your inner voice to sound like the best, most empowered version of you   These 5 common phrases might seem small... But they trigger BIG emotional reactions (and old wounds) Let’s clean them up....and I’ll show you exactly what to say instead    You’ll walk away with: ✨ 5 Phrases to ditch if you want to feel SECURE in love ✨ What to say Instead, as your Secure BEST version of yourself ✨ Coaching questions to shift your mindset in real time ✨ Real life examples of how these phrases show up when you're anxiously attached Let’s give your nervous system a reset.... one sentence at a time      🖤 Here’s how we can work together: My Monthly Text & Talk Support  (Coaching via text) https://www.the-marriage-coach.com/textandtalk   Apply for Private 1:1 Coaching: Go all in with my 4/ 8-month 1:1 coaching program Anxious to Secure https://tr.ee/PInPmy   Free Offers + Mini Courses: https://linktr.ee/the.anxious.to.secure.coach     CHAPTERS: 00:00 Introduction why Words matter in your Relationship 02:16 the 5 Phrases I've banned + what I would say Instead as Securely Attached Best Version of Myself 02:25 Phrase 01 04:38 Phrase 02 06:11 Phrase 03 08:01 Phrase 04 09:34 Phrase 05 12:12 Remember     DISCLAIMER: I'm not a therapist or doctor. This content is for informational and entertainment purposes only. It's not intended to diagnose, treat, or heal any mental health conditions. This is not meant for situations involving abusive relationships of any kind. Always seek professional advice for personal health concerns.   Remember: Change in your relationship starts with YOU, thought by thought and action by action.  

NEW OFFER Monthly 1:1 Coaching (2x Calls a month)  https://tr.ee/PInPmy “5 Phrases I BANNED from My Vocabulary While Healing Anxious Attachment 🧠✨ (And What I Say Instead Now as a Secure Partner)”   Ever said “He makes me feel anxious” or “They NEVER show up for me”?Yep... me too 🖤   But once I started healing my anxious attachment, I realized something BIG:It wasn’t just my thoughts that were spiraling.It was the words I was using.Out loud AND in my head.   This episode is, if you’re ready to:➤ stop sabotaging your relationship with sneaky phrases that spike anxiety➤ feel more in control, calm, and secure... without pretending or people-pleasing➤ rewire your inner voice to sound like the best, most empowered version of you   These 5 common phrases might seem small...But they trigger BIG emotional reactions (and old wounds)Let’s clean them up....and I’ll show you exactly what to say instead    You’ll walk away with:✨ 5 Phrases to ditch if you want to feel SECURE in love✨ What to say Instead, as your Secure BEST version of yourself✨ Coaching questions to shift your mindset in real time✨ Real life examples of how these phrases show up when you're anxiously attached Let’s give your nervous system a reset.... one sentence at a time      🖤 Here’s how we can work together: My Monthly Text & Talk Support  (Coaching via text) https://www.the-marriage-coach.com/textandtalk   Apply for Private 1:1 Coaching: Go all in with my 4/ 8-month 1:1 coaching program Anxious to Secure https://tr.ee/PInPmy   Free Offers + Mini Courses: https://linktr.ee/the.anxious.to.secure.coach     CHAPTERS: 00:00 Introduction why Words matter in your Relationship02:16 the 5 Phrases I've banned + what I would say Instead as Securely Attached Best Version of Myself02:25 Phrase 0104:38 Phrase 0206:11 Phrase 0308:01 Phrase 0409:34 Phrase 0512:12 Remember     DISCLAIMER: I'm not a therapist or doctor. This content is for informational and entertainment purposes only. It's not intended to diagnose, treat, or heal any mental health conditions. This is not meant for situations involving abusive relationships of any kind. Always seek professional advice for personal health concerns.   Remember: Change in your relationship starts with YOU, thought by thought and action by action.

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