65 | Conscious Kink: Healing Through Power, Consent & Trust with Bear Phillips

Kink. Power. Control. Not exactly words most people associate with healing…But what if they should?In this episode, I sit down with Bear Phillips, and Intimacy Coach & Touch Therapist, to explore the world of conscious kink. Power dynamics, real consent, Daddy energy, creating cultures of repair, and deeper levels of safety. In this episode - we reframe intimacy in a way you may never have thought of before. We get into: Why so many people are disconnected from their bodies during sexWhy so many women have never truly felt safe with menHow patriarchy impacts men’s emotional and sexual expressionThe difference between performing intimacy vs. actually feeling itHow power and consent - when done consciously - can become tools for healingAnd the thing most relationships are missing: how to repair after ruptureAnd little-big Daddy DynamicsIntimacy isn’t just about how you connect when things are good…It’s about what happens after things break.And most of us were never taught how to come back together.This episode is an invitation to look at your relationships, your desires, and your body through a completely different lens.___Meet Our GuestBear (he/ him) is an Intimacy Coach & Touch Therapist, supporting individuals, couples and thruples in expanding pleasure, exploring authentic relating, and deepening into intimacy. In his coaching with men, he works with questions of masculinity and how patriarchy impacts our ability to have meaningful and authentic relationships.He has been involved in various forms of therapy and personal development for more than half his life, having recently completed the year-long *Compassionate Inquiry* Professional Training with Gabor Maté. His first book; Feminism Will Make a Man Out of You! Is due for release in 2027.www.bearphillips.co.ukSubstack:    @bearphillips1 – bearphillips1.substack.com/IG:    @bear_phillips – instagram.com/bear_phillips/FB:   Bear Phillips – facebook.com/bearphillipsUK_____Go Deeperhttps://www.krishall.ca Join our retreat in Mexico:https://www.krishall.ca/application-wild-women-unleashed Sex Coaching:https://calendly.com/krishall2/consultation-call Download The Pleasure Portal (FREE)⁠https://www.krishall.ca/the-pleasure-portal⁠ Learn Sex Magic (FREE)https://www.krishall.ca/sex-magic Use code KRIS10 for 10% off sex toys: waands.com Submit your questions:⁠⁠https://www.krishall.ca/podcast⁠⁠   IG:https://www.instagram.com/kris.the.pleasure.engineer/ https://www.instagram.com/illhavewhat_shes_having/