66 | My Ex And I: Breaking Up Without Losing Each Other

What happens when a relationship ends… but the connection doesn’t?In this episode of I’ll Have What She’s Having, I sit down with my former partner Graham.  And we get into the real reason we broke up, why it didn’t work between us, and how we’ve transformed our relationship in the 8 months since it happened. This break up shook my world. We had been quite serious about moving towards co-habitation, kids, marriage - the whole shebang... And then within a week I was so grateful we ended things. What happened next has shocked almost everyone in my life - even more than the breakup.  We stayed not only friends, but lovers as well. We chose to keep the other in our lives in the way that felt the most authentic for us. We went through a conscious uncoupling process, and then rebuilt it into something that actually works for who we are now.In this conversation, we talk about where we were, where we are now, and where we think we’re going. We get into:Why “ending” a relationship doesn’t have to mean losing the personWhat it really takes to de-escalate without resentment or confusionThe emotional reality of going from “forever” to something undefinedBoundaries, communication, and what made this actually workWhy forcing traditional relationship paths can sometimes do more harm than goodHow to know if transforming a relationship is healthy… or just avoidanceThis isn’t a “how-to.”We don’t have the answers for you. This is just our story. It’s an honest (and very vulnerable) look at what it actually took for our relationship to evolve instead of explode.The most aligned choice for us, wasn’t to hold on tightly, or let go lightly… but change together.  To create something new. If you’ve ever wondered:“Is it possible to stay connected after a breakup?”“Do all relationships have to follow the same path?”“Can something end… and still be meaningful?”This episode will give you a completely new lens.Let’s get into it._______Discover Our Guest:squamishchimney.cagrahamzell.ca _______Go Deeperhttps://www.krishall.ca Join our women’s retreat in Mexico:https://www.krishall.ca/application-wild-women-unleashed Discover Sex Coaching:https://calendly.com/krishall2/consultation-call Download The Pleasure Portal (FREE)⁠https://www.krishall.ca/the-pleasure-portal⁠ Learn Sex Magic (FREE)https://www.krishall.ca/sex-magic Use code KRIS10 for 10% off sex toys: waands.com Submit your questions:⁠⁠https://www.krishall.ca/podcast⁠⁠   IG:https://www.instagram.com/kris.the.pleasure.engineer/ https://www.instagram.com/illhavewhat_shes_having/