67. How to ditch your unrelenting standards

Ask me a question or let me know what you think!"If we can compassionately remind ourselves in moments of falling down, that failure is part of the shared human experience, then that moment becomes one of togetherness rather than isolation." This description comes from Doctor Kristen Neff, the leading expert in self-compassion. And in fact, she conducted the very first academic studies on the psychology of self-compassion. Today's conversation is all about pragmatic utility and how we can notice and use pragmatism to both feel better in the moment and let go of long term patterns of unrelenting standards and mentally criticizing ourselves. Reframe FormulaUse this formula explained in the episode to defuse from thoughts. Start at the bottom and work your way up.I am aware of thoughts about...I am having a thought that...I am...Support the showExplore the Modern Creative Woman Communityhttps://moderncreativewoman.comFree Goodies and Subscribe to the Monthly Newsletterhttps://moderncreativewoman.com/subscribe-to-the-creative-woman/Connect with Dr. Amy on Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/dramybackos/