67 | It’s Not Confidence You’re Missing, It’s Self-Trust - with Andrea Janssen

We talk about confidence all the time.On this podcast. In dating. Sex. Work. In life really. It’s an important skill. But… is it a skill? Is it innate? Can it be learned? And what is the root of real confidence? And… what if confidence isn’t actually the thing you’re missing?In this episode of I’ll Have What She’s Having, I sit down with Andrea Janssen - a self-trust guide & confidence coach, to unpack what’s really underneath self-doubt, overthinking, and that constant feeling of second-guessing yourself.Because here’s the truth: so many people are just using confidence they've gained from experience to get by, instead of developing deep, long lasting, self-trust. And most of us have been taught to look outside of ourselves for answers - instead of learning how to listen to what’s already happening inside our bodies. In this episode, we get into:• Why confidence is often just surface-level - and what actually creates real self-worth• The difference between mindset and intuition (and why mindset alone can keep you stuck)• How the inner critic is actually trying to protect you - and why fighting it doesn’t work• What it means to be truly present in your body (especially in sex, intimacy, and relationships)• Why overthinking disconnects you from your intuition - and what to do instead• How to stop performing, people-pleasing, and outsourcing your worth• What “being honest with yourself” actually looks like in real lifeThis conversation goes way beyond the “top tips for confidence”. Because, there are different types of confidence. And there are foundational pieces that we need before we can even start to develop confidence itself. How do we learn how to trust ourselves in the moments that really matter, where there's no script, no certainty, and no one telling you what to do? Whether it’s in the bedroom, in your relationships, or in the decisions you make every day…This episode will shift the way you relate to yourself.Meet Our Guest:Andrea Janssen is a Self-Trust Guide who helps coaches and healers confidently facilitate their client sessions by overcoming self-doubt and trusting their intuition using an intuitive, body-based approach built on over 15 years of experience.Get her free guide: The Ultimate Inner Critic Interrupter, to start quieting self-doubt and trusting your intuition at  https://www.andreajanssen.net/inner-critic Learn more at https://www.andreajanssen.net _____Go Deeperhttps://www.krishall.ca Join our women's pleasure retreat in Mexico:https://www.krishall.ca/application-wild-women-unleashed Sex Coaching:https://calendly.com/krishall2/consultation-call Download The Pleasure Portal (FREE)⁠https://www.krishall.ca/the-pleasure-portal⁠ Learn Sex Magic (FREE)https://www.krishall.ca/sex-magic Use code KRIS10 for 10% off sex toys: waands.com Submit your questions:⁠⁠https://www.krishall.ca/podcast⁠⁠   IG:https://www.instagram.com/kris.the.pleasure.engineer/ https://www.instagram.com/illhavewhat_shes_having/