67: People Pleasing vs Pleasing People

Send us Fan MailIn this episode MaryAnn identifies 10 qualities of both people pleasing and pleasing people. Descriptors for People Pleasing:Overly accommodatingSubmissiveFear of conflictDifficulty saying noExcessive apologizingSeeking approvalAvoiding personal needsConstant need for validationSelf-sacrificingAnxious about disappointing othersDescriptors for Pleasing People:Being considerateKind and empatheticGenerousCooperativeAltruisticSupportiveRespectfulAttentive to others' needsPositive and upliftingWillingness to help without sacrificing personal boundariesWhile the behaviors of each may appear to be the exact same on the outside, the motivation and internal impact of each are vastly different. Would you like help learning how to identify where people pleasing might be showing up for you and transitioning that into pleasing people?  Come and work with me. Click here to get started.