#67 Stephen Shortt | Why family business succession breaks people (and how to survive it)

We often fall into the lazy thinking that family businesses are easy to hand down. Stephen Shortt lived the messy reality. He grew up in two family businesses and nearly walked away from it all just to save his relationship with his parents. In this episode, we talk about escaping that trap and surviving succession without burning down the family home. We unpack the "five Ps of successful succession," why the ancient Celtic concept of "fosterage" beats nepotism, and how to build "inside hustles" to innovate safely.But we also explore what happens past the Give a Shit line. Building a multi-generational business is not just about keeping the lights on; it is about keeping relationships intact. Stephen and I dig into navigating imposter syndrome, jumping the innovation S-curve before you resent your own company, and making it matter for the next generation.Key Takeaways:The Five Ps: Use Purpose, Pick, Prepare, Promote, and Patience to navigate succession smoothly.Change the room: Move hard conversations out of the boardroom to neutralise power dynamics and build a partnership.Fosterage over nepotism: Send the next generation out to learn from other businesses before bringing them into yours.Inside hustles: Build new projects within the safety of your current business to test new ideas without risking the family home.Jump the S-curve: Recognise your wiring and have the courage to jump to the next innovation curve when the work becomes too focused on optimisation.More about Stephen Shortt: Stephen Shortt is a career and talent strategist, family business facilitator, and the founding member of EO Ireland. He helps multi-generational businesses navigate succession and builds tools to help people find fulfilling, rewarding careers.