67. The “You Should Smile More” Trap

"You should smile more." We've all heard it, usually said like a compliment but landing like a command or even a demand. Sometimes it comes when you're giving hard feedback, holding someone accountable, or just being neutral. This episode isn't about convincing you to smile. It's about the empowerment that comes from smiling when it's chosen by you, not demanded by others. Tune in this week discover the significant difference between smiling because someone told you to and choosing to smile for yourself. You'll learn how to discern when feedback about smiling is someone trying to diffuse your power versus when it comes from genuine goodwill, the neurological research behind a chosen smile, and my own story of how letting myself be more human, more playful, and yes, smiling more, didn't weaken my authority but made me more trusted, more connected, and gave me way more fun in my leadership role. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: www.aspire-coaching.co/67 Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/yanndang/Mentioned in this episode:COMMAND DOORS ARE OPEN!You’ve already proven you can lead. Now it’s time to Command — with women who are shaping the next era of leadership from the inside out. Enroll in Command, the six-month leadership accelerator for high achieving women. Book your consult to learn more and join here: https://thebalancedleader.captivate.fm/command-consultGrab Your Free 30-min Consult for COMMAND here!