671 Confessions of an Upset Mama! Whine No More

Nothing is more annoying than a child nagging at you for what they want. Whine no more! If you want a different outcome, you need to make provisions to account for your goals; what you want, where you're headed. Desire to be supported and encourage by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. http://facebook.com/groups/thewomenofimpact    (Sigh!) Children have a tough time doing this simply because their lack of maturity and experience. We all learn the hard way. One of my sweet babies has been challenged with drivng and a heavy foot. Oh yes, speeding tickets. And now, we are in the position of figuring out what to do so the license isn't suspended. I can tell you this doesn't make me happy. At the same time, I must give room for growth. Whine no more. "Do everything without complaining or arguing." ~ Philippians 2:14 When your child falls down, the first thing you want to do is make the pain go away, kiss it and make it all better. However, as we get older, we have to learn that in life there are consequences, good or bad. I was reminded that as much as we would like to make everything better, that's not in our job description. Each of us have to take responsibility for our actions or lack there of. Whine no more. If you know you are wanting something different, then you must make different decisions consisting of different actions. And whining is an excuse. All it does is hold you captive in "limbo land". Wherever you are, you're gonna stay stuck there. Whine no more. You're not helping your child, and you are not helping you. My child faces the consequences of her actions, and she's got to make some major decisions. Of course I can help her, but she must learn and grow. We end up enabling for the wrong reasons. Whine no more. Stop the excuses. If you want a different outcome, what are you doing about it? If you want a better marriage, are you working on it or complaining about it? If you hate your job, what are you doing to find what you do like? Whine no more. If you are tired of nothing fitting you or you don't like what does fit you, what are you changing? The K.I.S.S. ~ Whine no more! I can't ask my daughter to make changes and not whine, if I'm not modeling the same for her. What do your reflection model today? Are you complaining and whining? Or are you saying --- "I want to get on the 'Whine No More' Train." No more excuses. It's time to take A.I.M., one step at a time. "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness."  Ready to see if coaching and a mentorship is for you? It's time you TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation. This is FREE for you. Stop trying to do it by yourself. Invest in YOU! You are worth the time!!!   ANNOUNCEMENT: Ready to shine your light and tell your story. Please click on MY STRENGTH IS MY STORY. Here you can submit yourself to appear on the podcast or make recommendations as who you would like to hear. This is going to be a beautiful series!   Listen to Create Your Now on iHeart Radio. Click here. The Create Your Now Archives are LIVE!! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here.  http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive2   PERISCOPE USERS!!! Click here for ANDROID Users / GOOGLE  https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=tv.periscope.android Click here for APPLE Users  https://itunes.apple.com/app/id972909677   THE NO FUSS MEAL PLAN Twitter@KristianneWargo@CreateYourNow Facebookwww.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Contact me at [email protected] Read more from Kristianne, a contributor of The Huffington Post http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kristianne-wargo/   DOMESTIC BEAUTIES (Announcements) 1. Come and let's connect on Facebook - Women Of IMPACT  http://facebook.com/groups/thewomenofimpact 2. Create Your Now ~ Your Best Selfie can be heard on iHeart Radio!  3. Create Your Now Archive 1 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1 4. Create Your Now Archive 2 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive2 5. NEW Website! Go check it out and tell me what you think. http://www.createyournow.com 6. Sign Up for The A.I.M. Academy! You will be the first to learn all about it. http://createyournow.com/m-academy-2 7. Schedule a Discovery Call. This is a free 30-45 minute call for those serious about coaching with me. 8. Newsletter and Library: If you desire to get weekly emails,be sure to sign up here so you can stay connected. http://createyournow.com/library   Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com   Cover Art by Jenny Hamson