#686: Childhood Trauma and the Need for Control (Revisited)

Most people don’t think of themselves as controlling.They think of themselves as responsible, capable, and dependable.But what if that constant need to manage, anticipate, and stabilize everything around you… isn’t leadership?What if it’s something older?In this episode, we revisit one of the most listened-to conversations in the archive—this time with deeper clarity. You’ll hear how high-functioning control often forms in childhood, why it feels like strength, and what it quietly costs you in adulthood.If your growth feels real—but something still feels tight underneath it—this might be the layer you haven’t named yet.🔗 Original post:https://deniseglee.com/childhood-trauma-controlling-behavior/⸻If This Episode Hit Something Deeper…If you’re tired of insight without real change, this is where we take it further.🔥 The Path — 6-Month Coaching for Leaders Ready to Stop Circling the Same PatternsThis isn’t surface work.This is structured, direct, and built for high-functioning adults who are done rationalizing their own behavior.If you’re ready to work — not just think about working — start here:👉 Explore The Path: DeniseGLee.com/The-Path⸻Not Sure If You’re Ready?Start with the filter.🧠 Discover Your Life ScriptUncover the unconscious patterns shaping your leadership, relationships, and decisions.👉 Take the Life Script Questionnaire⸻For Ongoing Private Insight📩 Join the Private Email ListWhere I say what I won’t say publicly.No fluff. No noise. Just grounded clarity.👉 Subscribe Here⸻Stay Connected📲 Follow on X or IG: @DeniseGLee  | @@coachdeniseglee💼 Connect on LinkedIn:  @deniseglee⸻DisclaimerThis podcast is for educational purposes only and does not provide medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for medical concerns, diagnosis, or treatment. Never disregard professional medical advice based on podcast content.⸻We do not accept unsolicited PR or booking agency pitches.