#697: You Don't Trust Yourself — And There's a Reason

You probably think your biggest problem is confidence.But what if the real issue is that you've spent years waiting for someone else to tell you you're ready?In this episode,I explore why so many capable leaders struggle to trust themselves—even after years of experience, education, and success. You'll learn how constantly seeking approval, permission, and validation quietly erodes self-trust and keeps you second-guessing your own judgment.If you've ever found yourself waiting for one more credential, one more opportunity, or one more person's approval before taking action, this conversation is for you.You'll discover:Why self-trust is different from confidenceHow childhood and workplace experiences teach us to depend on approvalThe hidden cost of always waiting to be "chosen"Practical ways to begin rebuilding trust in your own judgmentRead the companion article:https://deniseglee.com/stop-needing-to-be-chosen/⸻If This Episode Hit Something Deeper…If you’re tired of insight without real change, this is where we take it further.🔥 The Path — 6-Month Coaching for Leaders Ready to Stop Circling the Same PatternsThis isn’t surface work.This is structured, direct, and built for high-functioning adults who are done rationalizing their own behavior.If you’re ready to work — not just think about working — start here:👉 Explore The Path: DeniseGLee.com/The-Path⸻Not Sure If You’re Ready?Start with the filter.🧠 Discover Your Life ScriptUncover the unconscious patterns shaping your leadership, relationships, and decisions.👉 Take the Life Script Questionnaire⸻For Ongoing Private Insight📩 Join the Private Email ListWhere I say what I won’t say publicly.No fluff. No noise. Just grounded clarity.👉 Subscribe Here⸻Stay Connected📲 Follow on X or IG: @DeniseGLee  | @@coachdeniseglee💼 Connect on LinkedIn:  @deniseglee⸻DisclaimerThis podcast is for educational purposes only and does not provide medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for medical concerns, diagnosis, or treatment. Never disregard professional medical advice based on podcast content.⸻We do not accept unsolicited PR or booking agency pitches.