7: Hector Castillo | College Social Circle Game

Hector Castillo discusses social circle game, meeting women at university, and what it's like to work in nightlife with host Varoon Raja. Selected topics of conversation... • How social circle functions as an exchange of value (1:48) • Why reputation matters when she choose whom to sleep with (4:55) • The ‘tabula rasa effect’: how being new will often get you laid (5:51) • Reputation as a ‘tandem bike’ - both parties reap rewards and punishments (6:22) • Once you’re on top, can you stay the king of the hill? (8:55) • Where the ‘player’ fits into social circle and what his rules are (9:22) • ‘Players’ hooking up lots versus ‘alphas’ taking hot girlfriends (9:57) • Why there are no ‘good’ or ‘bad’ reputations in social circle (11:40) • What kinds of value you can provide in social circle (13:13) • How to use the attention you receive from others (15:03) • Why reputation serves as precedent (17:44) • Why most popular guys are so ‘chill’ and how to be it (18:36) • Questions girls can have when they see men with reputations (19:30) • The trap of being liked for the sake of being liked (20:38) • Personalities of the cool-but-introverted types (22:04) • How women collect intel and scout men (23:21) • Keeping your image vs. trying to excel your image (25:58) • Risks of not sticking to your reputation once built (28:10) • Why you be touching much more (32:10) • How do men improve with women and when to start (34:36) • Recommendations for men currently in college (36:28) • How nightclubs differ from college game (37:20) • Benefits of working in the nightlife industry (38:56) Listen online: www.girlschase.com/content/girls-chase-podcast-interviews-ep-7-hector-castillo LEARN SOMETHING GOOD? SUBSCRIBE AND REVIEW! If you enjoy the podcast, please subscribe in iTunes and leave a review. This helps us reach more ears, and casts your vote for “Yes! Make more episodes!”