#7 Not All Clubs: Exposing Sexism, Homophobia & Toxic Culture in Sport

After years of being pushed to the sidelines with second-hand balls, women’s footy has finally stepped out of the dark ages… or has it?This week we put male-dominated sports under the microscope with Not All Clubs. Behind the aliases Ripley, Jyn, and Lara are three fearless voices exposing the discrimination, harassment, and toxic cultures still silencing athletes and making clubs unsafe.With AFL player Mitch Brown recently becoming the first openly bisexual male in the league, this conversation is more urgent than ever. Whether you’re an athlete, parent, or coach, this episode is about creating safer, more inclusive environments - and understanding the role you can play so fewer female and LGBTQIA+ athletes walk away from sport.What We CoverThe Power of Anonymity – Why the team remain anonymous to protect themselves and encourage others to share safely.The Catalyst – The incident at a First Nations round that sparked the Not All Clubs movement.The Systemic Problem – From being kicked off an oval to harassment and assault, sexism in sport is widespread.The Female Athlete Journey – Why young women leave clubs and what this costs future communities and sponsorships.Tackling Change – The governance, leadership, and policy shifts needed to move beyond tokenism into genuine inclusivity.Individual Action – Practical steps you can take, from calling out “drive-by comments” to being proactive in your club.Why ListenBe empowered to create real change in your sporting community.Understand the deep-seated issues behind sexism and homophobia in sport.Know you’re not alone - others share these experiences, and there are people working to change things.See how male allies can use their voice to support women and LGBTQIA+ athletes.Key TakeawaysThe problem is widespread – These issues aren’t isolated but part of a global, systemic culture in male-dominated sports.It’s more than a game – Sport builds confidence, belonging, and life skills, making safe, inclusive clubs essential.Every action counts – Calling out microaggressions signals these behaviours won’t be accepted.The solution is collective – True change requires men to listen, acknowledge their role, and work with everyone in the community.Timestamps 00:00 Mitch Brown and the urgency of the conversation 01:00 Jyn’s story: sexism’s impact on a young athlete 04:47 How Not All Clubs began 07:44 The power of anonymity 12:53 Stories from the DMs 18:59 Why women don’t get the longevity of connection 21:30 The red armband protest 24:12 The toll of heavy stories 29:21 A feminist framework for change 35:46 What you can do 38:53 Case study: drag queen rejected for “family club” 41:40 The vision for the future of sport 44:42 What a women-only league could look like 47:50 Advice for a 16-year-old feeling isolated 54:40 The most important lever for change: corporate supportFollow the 4TG movement on Instagram @4TG_podcast and join the discussion. Follow Not All Clubs on Instagram @notallclubs and check out their podcast. If this episode hit home, share it with a friend, subscribe, and leave a five-star review.Fuel your game the right way - Younify Active is offering 4TG listeners 10% off their high-quality supplements designed for athletes. Grab yours here 👉 Younify Active P3 Recovery Port Melbourne are helping our 4TG community recover smarter and feel their bSupport the showABOUT THE HOSTKylie Lynch is the Founder and Host of 4TG (For The Girls), a podcast and platform on a mission to keep more girls and women in sport.A VFLW athlete, Australian representative in Polocrosse, coach, mentor and media/communications professional, Kylie has spent her career at the intersection of sport, media and community impact. Through 4TG, she shares the stories, lessons and experiences of elite athletes, coaches and industry leaders to help girls and women build confidence, navigate challenges and stay involved in sport for longer. Because sport doesn't just build athletes. It builds confidence, resilience, leadership, connection and opportunities that positively impact girls and women both on and off the field.Connect with Kylie:Instagram: @kylie__lynchLinkedIn: Kylie LynchWebsite: www.4tg.com.auEmail: [email protected] THE 4TG COMMUNITY4TG exists to help keep more girls and women in sport.Through powerful conversations with athletes, coaches, experts and industry leaders, we're building a community where girls and women feel inspired, supported and empowered to stay in the game.Instagram: @4tg_podcastTikTok: ...