7. Why Waiting to Be Chosen Keeps High Achieving Women Stuck (Go All In On You Instead) with Kathryn Ducey

What Happens When You Go All In on You (ft. Kathryn Ducey)What happens when you stop waiting for someone else to choose you… and you choose yourself instead?In this episode, I’m joined by my coach, friend and permission slip writer Kathryn Ducey to talk about the power of betting on yourself—and what unfolds when you finally go all in.We explore what it takes to stop hiding, stop hesitating, and stop asking for permission to embody the full expression of your magic.We cover:✧ Choosing yourself when you don’t yet have the proof✧ Leaving good enough for greatness✧ How your conditioning chooses your relationships✧ Going all in without a safety net✧ How your secondary gain may be sabotaging you✧ What does uncertainty feel like in your body?✧ The importance of living in the gain not the gapIf you’re standing on the edge of your next evolution, this is your reminder:You’re the safe bet. You’re the whole damn thing.Find Kathryn on Instagram @kathrynducey and look out for the launch of her podcast, Brutally Honest.Join the Too Much Not Enough community on ⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠TikTok⁠Chapters00:00 Episode Preview02:05 Today's Intro04:39 Kathryn's Permission Slip07:31 Recruiter to Life Coach11:22 Big Leaps, Big Debt, Big Shame15:48 Paying Attention to Who Makes us Uncomfortable21:16 What It's Like to Really Go All In24:53 What is Nature? What is your Soul's Purpose?26:52 Your Secondary Gain is Sabotaging You33:41 Leaving Good Enough for Greatness37:27 Your Conditioning Chooses Your Relationships45:09 Discomfort is Not Optional When You Go All In59:44 Sometimes Going Harder is Not The Answer01:09:33 Game Changing Clear Signs You're Overwhelmed01:17:53 Rapid Fire QuestionsThis podcast explores the deep connection between female leadership and the power of Divine Feminine Energy, helping the high-achiever and entrepreneur move beyond anxiety, exhaustion, overthinking and imposter syndrome, by exploring emotional intelligence, connection, and the art of receiving, while unpacking patterns like codependency, control, and resentment, and offering tools to regulate the nervous system, reconnect with intuition, and move toward clarity, confidence and trust all while celebrating intimacy, ambition, creativity, pleasure, abundance, and the grounding wisdom of somatics to find joy and transformation through alignment.