70. Be Kind

​​The most common relationship advice all over the world is to compromise. If you want a bland, conflict-free companionship, then yes. If you want the spice and spark of an intimate marriage, you need to make your desires known. DESIRES: Awaken the WOMAN within https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/desires/ As women, we are conditioned to disconnect from our desires. When I came to understand the importance of bringing my feelings into my marriage so all of me can be alive in the dynamic I share with my husband, it felt lonely. The problem wasn't that my husband didn't want me to have my desires; the problem was the way I was speaking to him about it. He wanted me to be kind. Learning how to be kind isn't a very simple thing. I have a module in my Aligned & Hot Marriage program on exactly that. Many women have gotten used to speaking with a sting or acidity, and/or wait until the resentment builds up to the boiling point. I'd really love to hear what came up for you in this episode. Contact Alexandra https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ Season 1, Episode 42 "Uncompromising Intimacy" https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/uncompromising-intimacy/id1548060690?i=1000536253485 ALIGNED & HOT MARRIAGE www.alignedhotmarriage.com DESIRES: Awaken the WOMAN within https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/desires/ Contact Alexandra https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit www.alexandrastockwell.com Alexandra's book "Uncompromising Intimacy" https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage