(#73) From straight A’s to real life success: unlearning the school mindset for the real world

EPISODE · Apr 27, 2025 · 19 MIN

(#73) From straight A’s to real life success: unlearning the school mindset for the real world

from EmpowerHER · host Diana DeBolt

I thought if I worked hard and followed the rules, success would naturally follow — just like it did in school. But starting my own business forced me to unlearn everything I thought I knew about achievement, productivity, and self-worth. In this episode, I’m sharing the messy truth behind my transition from gold stars and perfectionism to alignment, self-trust, and real fulfillment.I talk about:Why school habits can hurt you in real lifeThe emotional work behind unlearning people-pleasing and perfectionismWhat productivity looks like when you actually feel goodHow I learned to trust myself (and stop chasing the A+)If you’ve ever felt like you’re “doing everything right” and still not getting the results you want — this one’s for you.Work with me 1-1 at ⁠https://www.coachdianadebolt.com/1-1-coaching ⁠If you would like to work with me 1-1 or consult for your organization, email me at [email protected] If you loved this episode, rate, review and subscribe! You can follow Diana ⁠⁠⁠⁠@coachdianadebolt⁠⁠⁠⁠ on TikTok and ⁠⁠⁠⁠@coachdianadebolt⁠⁠ ⁠⁠on Instagram and now watch on YouTube here

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