#73 - Susan Bratton / An intimacy expert's guide to great sex

Toshi was joined by the wonderful Susan Bratton for today’s episode. Susan is an intimacy expert to millions, who is known as an ‘orgasmanaut’ and is an advocate for all those who desire intimacy and passion their whole life long. She's created a whole bunch of techniques that transform “having sex” into making love, and is the bestselling author and publisher of an incredible 44 books. In this episode, Toshi and Susan spoke about why sex is a lifelong skill, the different kinds of orgasms the human body can experience, why bedroom communication skills are so important and how to get better at them, Susan’s top tips for having a great sex life, how to figure out your relationship values, and how to use erotic playdates to add variety to your sex life. Find more of Susan here: https://susanbratton.com/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/susanbratton Timestamps:  00:00 – Intro  01:20 – Susan the ‘orgasmanaut’ 02:08 – What is an extended orgasm?  04:15 – What is an expanded orgasm?  06:07 – Susan’s experience with orgasms  07:43 – Susan's sex advice for younger people  11:00 – Matriarchal perspectives on sex   12:00 – Understanding pleasure and the female body 12:53 – The three ‘prongs’ to great sex  14:30 – The important thing to do to have a great sex life 16:21 – The sexual soulmate pact  21:03 – Working out what you want in bed  22:55 – How to communicate what you want with a partner 26:45 – Sharing favourite frames after you make love  28:51 – Figuring out your relationship values  32:55 – Using erotic playdates to add variety to your sex life  36:01 – Summary and conclusion -----------------  Check out our books, 'How to talk with your kids about porn' and 'The Organ Education Forgot', available at https://www.sexinspace.com/books to download or buy.  Follow us here: https://www.instagram.com/sexinspacedotcom https://www.tiktok.com/@sexinspacedotcom https://www.facebook.com/sexinspacedotcom https://www.youtube.com/@sexinspace For more info, check out our website at: https://www.sexinspace.com/  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.