74| Abuse is Repulsive not the Abused

Such a fun topic, repulsion and revulsion. It's the instinctive reaction we all have to some stuff, like rats or spiders, and the way that we think about certain things. Like sexual abuse. We can't help it, it's a repulsive topic but as survivors sometimes we must talk about it. But it is the act that is repulsive and the perpetrator that is revolting, not the survivor. That is important to remember, what happened to us was repulsive but that doesn't mean that we are. ⁠No Longer Ashamed⁠ ⁠No Longer Ashamed FB⁠ [email protected]