#74 — Curiosity Over Conflict: Hormones, Cycles & Understanding Women (with Harry Kloser-Pitcher)

https://www.skool.com/men-rising/aboutWhy do so many relationships feel like a battlefield?Men feel blamed.Women feel misunderstood.And both feel alone.In this episode, I sit down with Harry Kloser-Pitcher, creator of She’s Not Crazy, to unpack one of the biggest sources of tension between men and women: misunderstanding.Harry shares his personal journey with his wife — two educated, self-aware people, both trained in communication and psychology — who still found themselves struggling.That’s the key.It’s not about intelligence.It’s not about being “good communicators.”It’s about understanding differences that most of us were never taught to look at.In this conversation we explore:• The pain that builds when men and women misunderstand each other• How labeling a woman as “crazy” shuts down curiosity• Why men often feel unfairly blamed• How defensive cycles replace partnership• The biological and hormonal differences between men and women• The power of learning about a woman’s monthly cycle• The importance of men understanding their own hormones and health• How curiosity creates closenessWe reference the book Period Brain and talk about how cyclical hormonal shifts aren’t flaws — they’re realities. And when men don’t understand them, they personalize what isn’t personal.One of the biggest takeaways from this episode:👉 Curiosity is leadership.Instead of reacting.Instead of defending.Instead of escalating.What if a man chose to ask:“How is she experiencing reality right now?”Misunderstanding between men and women has existed as long as time. But this episode offers a different path — not blame, not dominance, not withdrawal — but education and curiosity.If you’re in a relationship…If you’ve ever felt frustrated or confused…If you want to stop fighting and start understanding…This conversation will change how you see things.🎧 Listen to Episode 74 now.More from Harry :Facebook:⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61584787593157⁠Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shesnotcrazyseries/If this episode resonates and you want to become a man who leads with awareness, curiosity, and grounded confidence, join Men Rising.Inside Men Rising, we go deeper into:• Emotional regulation• Hormonal awareness• Intimacy and communication skills• Masculine leadership without defensiveness• Real conversations with real men👉 Join here:https://www.skool.com/men-rising/about