74. Why People Pleasing Is Self-Centered | The Hard Truth About Always Saying Yes

We like to think people-pleasing is kind or selfless — but the truth is, it often comes from fear, insecurity, and the need to control how others see us. In this deep dive, I’m unpacking why constantly trying to be liked or approved of actually makes life harder, not happier. We’ll talk about where people-pleasing really comes from, how it shows up in your daily life, and how to start choosing honesty and self-respect over perfection and approval.If you’ve ever struggled to say no or worried about disappointing others, this episode will shift your perspective completely. Hit play and let’s dive in.♥️ Don’t forget to:🎧 Follow the show on Apple, Spotify, or YouTube⭐️ Leave a review — it helps more teens find this space🌊 Check out all my socials + links at ⁠moannaadams.com*This episode was recorded at the start of 2025