#748 16 And Staying Overnight With A Boyfriend, Absolutely Not? with Elaine Mullally

A worried mother contacted Niall Boylan after a massive family argument erupted over their 16 year old daughter wanting to stay overnight at her boyfriend’s house for the first time. The mother says she is terrified at the idea and believes 16 is far too young for sleepovers with a boyfriend, especially overnight and out of her sight. Her biggest fear is that her daughter could end up pregnant at such a young age and she says once certain decisions are made, there is no going back.But her husband says she is overreacting and living in the past. He argues their daughter is 16, not 6, and says forbidding her from going will only encourage sneaking around, secrecy and lies. He believes teenagers today are more mature, more educated and that parents need to build trust instead of trying to control every move they make.The debate sparked huge reactions from callers, with some insisting strict boundaries are part of good parenting, while others argued overprotective parents simply push teenagers into rebellion.So where do you stand on the dilemma?At what age should teenagers be allowed stay overnight with a boyfriend or girlfriend?Would you allow your 16 year old daughter or son to stay in their partner’s house?And do strict parents protect teenagers, or do they just make them better liars?Niall hears passionate opinions from callers on one of the parenting debates guaranteed to divide households across Ireland.