76: Dismantling Victim Mentality, Imposter Syndrome, & Other Unhealthy Mindsets with Mark England

In this episode of The Modern Man, I'm joined by Mark England, TEDx Speaker and Co-Founder and Head Coach of Enlifted, a coaching company that trains and empowers world-class coaches. Mark and I are talking about how our words and stories powerfully influence our personal and professional development, for better and for worse. We discuss how to get out of the victim mentality, break out of imposter syndrome, and change your unhealthy mindsets for good.   Mark highlights the power of storytelling and how your words create stories (mindsets) that influence all aspects of life, from how fulfilled you feel in your career to the relationships you have with people.   If you want to use your words to create better stories so you can stay focused, eliminate the drama in your life, unlock your inner power, and feel like a true Modern Man instead of an imposter, this one's for you.   "The thing that makes or breaks people on the path is the story they tell themselves while they're on the path, also known as their mindset, and if you put your words together in a certain way, you're going to make this shit way harder." – Mark England   Key Takeaways / What You'll Learn: [00:57] About Mark England & his mission. [07:43] Victim mentality, why your breath so important, & The 30/50/80 Rule. [15:29] How to change your mindset (the stories you tell yourself). [18:20] What keeps people in the victim mentality? [21:53] What happens to your relationships when you get out of the victim mentality. [25:17] How breath control leads to radical mindset shifts. [29:16] Implementing mindset changes on a daily basis + The "Soft Talk" Challenge. [36:31] The power of abracadabra. [44:38] How to connect with Mark England & Get Enlifted. [46:58] As a man, what has shaped your view of the world?   "When we learn to think about our thinking, we become alive in a new way." – Alan Watts   If you enjoyed this episode, please SHARE it with a friend, then RATE/REVIEW The Modern Man on Apple Podcasts or Spotify!   Resources Mentioned: Join The Noble Knights: https://themodernman.gumroad.com/l/NobleKnights   Connect with Mark England & Enlifted: Visit his website: https://enlifted.me Follow Enlifted on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/enliftedcoaches   Connect with The Modern Man: Visit our website: https://themodernmanshow.com Join our Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/244885633101820 Follow us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheModernMan8 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themodernmanpodcast Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnyA3-wtyv7xVqUbPyB0eOg