76: How and why to stop the blame game we all play when going through divorce

Blaming - holding others responsible for our pain, discomfort, troubles or anything going badly in our lives. Extremely prevalent during divorce. Everyone wants to be the "good one", the "innocent one" and for no one to perceive us as having caused the divorce or the unhappiness within ourselves or in the other person. All very ego driven. And very normal and understandable because when we blame we feel less vulnerable, less like failures and we receive sympathy, support and validation. But there are costs to the blame game and not just for the one you are blaming. One of the biggest ones: It holds you in the past and in the pain. So join me for this important conversation to help you heal and move forward now that your marriage or relationship is over. Same strategies apply to issue with people in your family, at work etc. LINKS MENTIONED AND MORE: ✴️ BUY THE BRAND NEW JOY JOURNAL: https://www.theseparationclub.com/the-joy-journal ✴️ I would love to work with you towards your healing, self-discovery and in creating your new life. Working with a coach is a great way to discover your purpose, your path forward while gaining clarity on your beliefs and core values. I have openings in my calendar for some new clients. https://www.theseparationclub.com/coaching ✴️ ONLY 3 SPOTS LEFT. Join our upcoming retreat in Costa Rica, March 2-9th, 2024 https://www.theseparationclub.com/costa-rica-retreat ✴️ Step into a dream and join us in Italy June 22-29th for a week of sisterhood, Italian wine and ancient towns with cobblestones and beautiful shops selling olive oil and pottery. It's the ultimate girls' trip https://www.theseparationclub.com/italy2024 ✴️ Receive our new and free Monthly Moon Journey Calendar showing you how to work with the phases of the moon and each phase’s unique energies to create the life you want. https://www.theseparationclub.com/moon ✴️ Also make sure to download the Free Separation Checklist: https://theseparationclub.com/separation-checklist ✴️ Join the private and free Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theseparationclub/ ✴️ You can also find me on Instagram @elisabethjoy444 where I share daily inspirations and tips as you navigate your divorce. And the brand new Instagram account for The Joy Journal: @thejoyjournal444