76. The Safety Tax

The most expensive part of getting across town is not always the fare. Sometimes it is the vigilance, the tight shoulders, the scanning, the calculation you do every minute just to feel safe enough to move through the world.I’m taking you with me on a real-life decision: driving into Manhattan during rush hour instead of taking the train. I talk through the hidden safety checklist many of us run from the second we step outside, why that constant hypervigilance is so draining, and how the commute can follow you home long after you’ve arrived.We also get into the emotional side of self-protection: what happens when people minimize your concerns, how gaslighting can make you question your own judgment, and why I’m done apologizing for boundaries. I share practical self-care tools that help me come down from a wired state.Tune in to get the big takeaway, which might surprise you.Send us Fan MailIf you want the deeper lessons behind strength training, join my newsletter called Between Reps: Building the Unbreakable Woman. Check it out HEREInstagram: www.instagram.com/tianamovesWebsite: unbreakablemb.comEmail: [email protected]: This show is for education and entertainment purposes only.  This is not intended as a replacement for therapy. Please seek out the help of a professional to assist you with your specific situation.