77: Am I doing it right? Sex, Love, Relationships & The Healing Journey

What I see time and time again, causing so much pain and suffering for so many people, is the desire to get it right and the deep fear of getting it wrong This conditioning, like many others I have shared about, came about in childhood through the punishment/reward system, when you get rewarded, loved, and praised for doing the “right” thing or for being a good boy or girl and punished for being a bad boy or girl, for doing the “wrong” thing. Perfectionism and trying to get it "right" will often prevent you from even trying, from giving things a go and having new experiences causing you live in autopilot, living out the same day, experiences and conversations. You end up losing the aliveness, passion, intimacy and joy in life and in your relationships. In this episode, my intention is to support you in changing your story so you can create a new life, one that you are excited to live each day. ___ Blog Post: https://www.moniquecarmela.com/blog/am-i-doing-it-right ___ Book A Complimentary Discovery Call Here: https://app.squarespacescheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=23377455&appointmentType=26057834  Questions, Feedback, Personal Shares, email Monique at [email protected] ___ Next steps: 1. Subscribe and be notified of upcoming episodes 2. Leave a 5-star review to help me get this to those who need it When you leave a review, you will get access to EXCLUSIVE episodes. Email me once you've left your review to get access! 3. Submit a question or get in touch about working together via email at [email protected] * Thank you for being here, see you next time!