771 - There Is No ‘Right’ Next Step… And Yes, You Have Blindspots! So What?

In this episode, I speak to the quiet anxiety that so many high-functioning people carry: the belief that if they could just identify the "next right step," everything would click into place. And when they finally do feel clarity? That clarity is immediately followed by... doubt. "Am I missing something? Is there a blindspot I can't see?" Here's the truth: People chase "the next right step" as if there's a divine maze they might accidentally mess up. There is no cosmic scoring system determining whether your next step is "correct." The truth is: There is only resonance. Alignment is something to feel, not something that is validated by others' opinions. What if your felt sense of aliveness was the map? What if trusting yourself was the clearest confirmation you'll ever receive? And yes, of course you have blindspots. We all do. But living from fear of what you don't know is a subtle form of self-abandonment. When people say, "I'm wondering if I have blindspots," what they're often asking is: "Will someone please give me a reason not to trust what feels alive in me?" But the presence of unknowns doesn't invalidate your clarity. It just means you're human, walking by trust, not control. This conversation is a reminder: You don't need certainty to move forward. You just need permission to trust what's alive in you now.