78 - Selfish or selfless?

Ok so let's rattle some cages, rock some boats and shake some people by the collars to wake up because this one needs to be spoken about. Notice how it's mostly women who are told they are selfish? When you know what is in alignemnet, when you identify your own wants and needs? Isn't that what we are here for? To live OUR lives? And yet the same people who say you are selfish are the ones who are selfish as they have an expectation that you should put THEIR wants, their expectations, their interpretations of how your life should look before their own. Food for thought, right?