78. Wesley Little, Couples Therapist

"You can make a career shift at any time. Because why not pursue something that you think would make you happy?" —Wesley Little Wesley Little is a licensed professional counselor specializing in couples therapy, and she's here to answer all of my — and your — burning questions. On this episode, Wesley talks about her indirect route to becoming a therapist (including a detour through law school), and the schooling and education required to pursue a similar career. She debunks common misconceptions about therapy, explains why most couples seek therapy together, and shares what she thinks holds most people back from seeing a therapist. Now more than ever, this conversation is so important, and I hope you enjoy it. (Plus, Wesley and her husband are both two-time marathoners. As for whether they have a "perfect marriage" and never fight? I asked. And she answered.) Thank you to AfterShokz for sponsoring this episode of the Ali on the Run Show! CLICK HERE for $30 off your wireless headphone purchase!   What you'll get on this episode: How Wesley decided to become a therapist, and what her journey to her dream career entailed (3:10) The kind of therapy Wesley practices, and why she decided she wanted to work with couples (9:45) Wesley debunks some common misconceptions about couples therapy (13:40) Wesley's advice for finding a therapist, and what she says holds most people back from going to therapy (15:10) Wesley breaks down the most common reasons couples seek therapy (20:20) When is the right time to start seeing a therapist? And how do you get your partner to agree if he or she is hesitant? (29:25) Wesley opens up about her own relationship, and how running plays a role in it (38:00) Wesley shares whether or not she thinks you should go to bed angry (43:00) Wesley answers listener questions! (45:15) What we mention on this episode: University of Wisconsin Oshkosh Dr. Sue Johnson Psychology Today Terry Real Vanessa Marin The 5 Love Languages Follow Wesley: Website Becoming a Therapist Follow Ali: Instagram @aliontherun1 Facebook Twitter @aliontherun1 Blog Strava Listen & Subscribe: Apple Podcasts Spotify SoundCloud Overcast Stitcher Google Play SUPPORT the Ali on the Run Show! If you're enjoying the show, please subscribe and leave a rating and review on Apple Podcasts. Spread the run love. And if you liked this episode, share it with your friends!