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EPISODE · Dec 19, 2025 · 49 MIN

79. Stop Gaslighting Yourself | Decide or Stay Stuck

from Rich Little Brokegirls · host Kimberly Bizu

Kim is back with life lessons, complaints, and a few unspoken rules we need to settle.In this episode, she reflects on a year in survival mode, realignment, and how a “no” from corporate life turned into a yes from Forbes 30 under 30. She breaks down why women feel behind — not because we are, but because we’ve stopped trusting our timeline and started negotiating with our intuition — and how hustle without direction leads straight to burnout. Kim unpacks what this year taught her about work, singlehood, and self-discipline: why output is not the same thing as impact, why alignment beats urgency, and why you need to surround yourself with doers, not thinkers.Kim’s biggest takeaway? Clarity comes faster when you stop gaslighting yourself.✨ You’re Gonna Want to Subscribe to This:Drop us a 5-STAR review (with a compliment — we read them all)Follow us (@richlittlebrokegrls) on Instagram for daily clips & chaos → [instagram.com/richlittlebrokegrls]Join the RLBG Community for exclusive events & LIVE girl talks → [richlittlebrokegirls.com/join] Stalk Kim on TikTok & Instagram (@kimberlybizu) for more unfiltered hot takes → [instagram.com/kimberlybizu & tiktok.com/@kimberlybizu]Shop Kim’s favorites on ShopMy → [https://shopmy.us/kimberlybizu] 💌 Submit your own Confession: RichLittleBrokegirls.com/confess

Kim is back with life lessons, complaints, and a few unspoken rules we need to settle.In this episode, she reflects on a year in survival mode, realignment, and how a “no” from corporate life turned into a yes from Forbes 30 under 30. She breaks down why women feel behind — not because we are, but because we’ve stopped trusting our timeline and started negotiating with our intuition — and how hustle without direction leads straight to burnout. Kim unpacks what this year taught her about work, singlehood, and self-discipline: why output is not the same thing as impact, why alignment beats urgency, and why you need to surround yourself with doers, not thinkers.Kim’s biggest takeaway? Clarity comes faster when you stop gaslighting yourself.✨ You’re Gonna Want to Subscribe to This:Drop us a 5-STAR review (with a compliment — we read them all)Follow us (@richlittlebrokegrls) on Instagram for daily clips & chaos → [instagram.com/richlittlebrokegrls]Join the RLBG Community for exclusive events & LIVE girl talks → [richlittlebrokegirls.com/join] Stalk Kim on TikTok & Instagram (@kimberlybizu) for more unfiltered hot takes → [instagram.com/kimberlybizu & tiktok.com/@kimberlybizu]Shop Kim’s favorites on ShopMy → [https://shopmy.us/kimberlybizu] 💌 Submit your own Confession: RichLittleBrokegirls.com/confess

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