#798: The Problem with Singapore's Leaders & Why Scrappin...

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We sit down with Crystal Lim-Lange - leadership consultant, ex-investment banker, former GEP kid, who shares with us her thoughts on how Singapore leaders can't apologize, why the Gifted Programme was special needs not elitism, and what our education system gets fundamentally wrong.𝙎𝙥𝙤𝙣𝙨𝙤𝙧: 𝙇𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙏𝙧𝙖𝙣𝙨𝙥𝙤𝙧𝙩 𝘼𝙪𝙩𝙝𝙤𝙧𝙞𝙩𝙮 (𝙇𝙏𝘼)𝘞𝘦 𝘤𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘋𝘪𝘳𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘰𝘳 𝘰𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘊𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘳𝘦 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘈𝘶𝘵𝘰𝘯𝘰𝘮𝘰𝘶𝘴 𝘝𝘦𝘩𝘪𝘤𝘭𝘦𝘴 𝘢𝘵 𝘓𝘛𝘈 𝘵𝘰 𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘯 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘢𝘣𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘚𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘢𝘱𝘰𝘳𝘦’𝘴 𝘱𝘭𝘢𝘯𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘢𝘶𝘵𝘰𝘯𝘰𝘮𝘰𝘶𝘴 𝘷𝘦𝘩𝘪𝘤𝘭𝘦𝘴!𝘓𝘪𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘯 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘧𝘶𝘭𝘭 𝘌𝘱𝘪𝘴𝘰𝘥𝘦 #790 | https://yahlahbut.short.gy/ep790𝘞𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘢 𝘳𝘪𝘥𝘦 𝘰𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘢𝘶𝘵𝘰𝘯𝘰𝘮𝘰𝘶𝘴 𝘴𝘩𝘶𝘵𝘵𝘭𝘦? 𝘋𝘳𝘰𝘱 𝘢𝘯 𝘦𝘮𝘢𝘪𝘭 𝘵𝘰 𝘈𝘶𝘵𝘰𝘯𝘰𝘮𝘰𝘶𝘴_𝘝𝘦𝘩𝘪𝘤𝘭𝘦@𝘭𝘵𝘢.𝘨𝘰𝘷.𝘴𝘨 𝘵𝘰 𝘳𝘦𝘨𝘪𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘳 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘵 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮 25 𝘔𝘢𝘳𝘤𝘩.𝗖𝗿𝘆𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝗟𝗶𝗺-𝗟𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲'𝘀 𝗪𝗼𝗿𝗸The Official Website of Crystal Lim-Lange𝗢𝗻𝗲 𝗦𝗵𝗶𝗼𝗸 𝗧𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴Terence: undertone | Official TrailerHaresh: Rockets & Penises in the Persian Gulf | George CarlinCrystal: Theo of Golden by Allen Levi & Project Hail Mary by Andy Weir𝗪𝗼𝗿𝗸 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝘂𝘀!We’re looking for people to join our team! Click on the links below to find out more about the roles. If you’re interested, send your CV & cover letter to [email protected]! Creative ProducerFolklory Growth Hacking Internship𝗦𝘂𝗯𝘀𝗰𝗿𝗶𝗯𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘄𝗲𝗲𝗸𝗹𝘆 𝗻𝗲𝘄𝘀𝗹𝗲𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿 – "𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗟𝗶𝘁𝘁𝗹𝗲 𝗕𝗶𝘁”Get a roundup of our One Shiok Things & first dibs on our latest launches delivered straight to your inbox!Subscribe Here(00:00) On this episode...(01:57) Intro(03:05) What Crystal Teaches About Authentic Communication(04:18) Why SG Leaders Are Afraid to Have an Opinion(05:24) The Empathy & Congruence Problem(07:18) The 4 Components of a Proper Apology(09:04) Crystal's Real-Life Apology at a Biopharma Offsite(11:29) Growing Up in a Rental HDB Flat in Little India(13:07) Entering Investment Banking Without Connections(16:10) The Gifted Education Programme & Her Best Friend from ACS(17:17) Why the GEP Is Special Needs, Not Elitism(19:49) The Stigma of Being Gifted & "You Don't Talk About GEP"(22:55) Is "Gifted" a Problematic Label?(24:30) Singapore's Scarcity Mindset & Where It Comes From(25:28) A Generation at the Cognitive Brink(27:33) The GEP Bubble Debate: Safe Space vs Stratification(30:40) How the Gifted Classroom Simulated Real Workplace Dynamics(32:31) "I Was an Absolute Nightmare Before GEP"(35:26) IQ, Grades & Getting Nearly Expelled from RGS(38:02) Was the GEP More Meritocratic Than Raffles?(41:08) The Missing Fire in Singapore's Leaders(41:48) What Is Psychological Safety?(43:41) Artificial Harmony in the Public Service(46:15) Does SG's "Smartest People Lead" Belief Make Us Compliant?(46:57) Diversity Without Inclusion: SG vs America(51:44) Crystal's Journey from Outsider to High-Functioning Adult(53:37) "It Is No Measure of Health to Be Adjusted to a Sick Society"(54:25) Trauma, Survival & Post-Traumatic Growth(56:32) Going Viral on LinkedIn About Being Gifted(57:46) The Bigger Threat: Class Divide or Holding Back the Brightest?(58:14) What Does Success Actually Mean for Singapore?(01:01:26) Is Singapore's Education System Working?(01:04:21) "Molding" vs "Igniting" — Crystal's Problem with MOE's Slogan(01:05:33) Life as a Portfolio: Not Everyone Needs a Special Career(01:07:52) Minerva University & Teaching Meta-Skills Over Memorisation(01:10:48) The Oxbow Lake Problem: Near vs Far Transfer of Knowledge(01:12:08) Why Singaporeans Are Frustratingly Concrete Thinkers(01:14:37) What Should Success Look Like for Singapore?(01:15:22) Leaders Need to Role Model Growth Mindset(01:18:04) Crystal Confronted Minister Ong About His Victim Mindset(01:21:14) One Shiok Thing(01:25:17) Post-Interview Reflection𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗼𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗲𝗽𝗶𝘀𝗼𝗱𝗲!Reddit | Telegram𝗙𝗼𝗹𝗹𝗼𝘄 𝘂𝘀 𝗼𝗻 𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘀𝗼𝗰𝗶𝗮𝗹𝘀TikTok | Instagram | Facebook𝘔𝘪𝘤𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘏𝘦𝘢𝘥𝘱𝘩𝘰𝘯𝘦𝘴 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮 @𝘴𝘩𝘶𝘳𝘦𝘌𝘥𝘪𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘮𝘪𝘹𝘦𝘥 𝘣𝘺 𝘛𝘳𝘪𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘯 𝘠𝘦𝘢𝘬

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