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#8: Couples Conflict: Why Saying "You Always…" Makes Fights Worse. (Includes 7 Examples)

from help us couples coaching for REAL relationship advice · host Trina Leckie

In this episode, I'm addressing something that can really fuel a fight: using the phrase  "You always_____." I see it all the time, and trust me, it's one of the quickest ways to make things worse. In this episode, I'll explain why this phrase gets you nowhere and how to reframe it so you and your partner can actually feel like you are making headway. Healthier communication will absolutely lead to a more peaceful relationship. LISTEN NOW! COACHING & CONTACT Help Us is a spin-off of breakup BOOST. For couples coaching, visit breakupBOOST.com and click on the Help Us Couples tab. You'll also see where you can order individual coaching by phone or email for breakups, dating, or relationships. Book: Don't Be DESPERATE (Amazon)

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