8. Fighting Fair

Fighting fair with your spouse Take time and find out what your spouse needs. Find out if they need time and space before you discuss and conflict. Fighting fair with your family. Letting stuff linger, give up your right to be right. We honor people not because they deserve to be honored but because we are honorable. Fighting fair at work (morals, values, competence, etc.) Fighting fair with your kids Controlling your equanimity during pressure situations. Controlling your mind, body, and spirit during pressure situations. Understanding what it means to give up your right to be right Don’t fucking fight at family gatherings or parties, etc. Proverbs 20:3 Avoiding a fight is a mark of honor; only fools insist on quarreling Who in your life has tested your patience the most in regards to fighting fair? How have you learned to control yourself in situations where you could fight dirty? 1. They want you to hear them and not fix them. Just listen to your wife, they don’t always need a response or solution. Ask your wife what she wants before the conversation starts. “Honey do you want me to listen or do you want a response. Please feel free to ask any questions or topics you would like us to discuss. Instagram @thepaternopodcast Email [email protected] Follow the Upgraded Human Mastermind on Instagram or check out the website upgradedhuman.com