8. How Much Screen Time Is Too Much?

How much screen time is too much? And is the amount of time really the most important question to ask? Few parenting topics create as much anxiety as screens. From video games and YouTube to social media and Minecraft, many parents worry about what screens are doing to their children. But what if we began somewhere else—not with rules or limits, but with curiosity? In this episode, we explore why "screen time" is far more complex than it first appears. We discuss the different needs children meet through technology, how our own fears influence the decisions we make, and why understanding what our children are actually doing on a screen matters far more than simply counting the hours. We also reflect on social media, online safety, digital literacy, self-regulation and how honest conversations can help children develop a healthier relationship with technology over time. Whether you're homeschooling, home educating, unschooling or simply trying to navigate screens with more confidence and less conflict, this episode offers a thoughtful, balanced perspective that moves beyond the usual debate. Some of the questions and ideas we explore include: How much screen time is too much? Should I limit my child's screen time? What are children actually learning through screens? How can I help my child develop a healthy relationship with technology? How do I talk to my child about YouTube and social media? How can curiosity replace fear when it comes to screens? Looking for support as you navigate learning outside school? Explore free masterclasses, resources, and a community of parents asking similar questions → Join UN-SKOOL Wondering what keeps shaping your reactions when parenting gets hard? → Discover Your Parenting Archetype Have a parenting, homeschooling, or unschooling question? Send it to us and we may answer it in an upcoming newsletter: → Dear Sari & Becka → Follow us on Instagram and come hang out with us between episodes. → Check out our website and explore more of our work, resources, and support. Radical Learning Talks was named the #2 Democratic Education Podcast to Listen to in 2026 by FeedSpot. See the full list